Sunday, June 2, 2013

Wonder


I got this book as a hand-me-down present from a boy I used to babysit. He is ten years old and started his own book club with his friends--how cool is that? His whole family gave it rave reviews so I was dying to read it! I read it on the airplane home from California last month. It was such a sweet, sweet story. It is one of those books that 1) you wish it would go on for at least another hundred pages and 2) you want everyone to go and read it so that you can talk about it with them!

The story is about a boy born with extreme facial deformities and the perspectives of people around him. Growing up with a handicapped older brother, I could definitely relate to all of the characters. While it is frustrating getting stared at, it is also understandable that people can just act differently around things they are not used to. If you haven’t read Wonder yet, I highly recommend it. The story will make you cry but also remind you that we have so much to be grateful for and what a difference a positive attitude can make. It is a quick read but has such a powerful and memorable message. It is great for adults and kids and I think it would be a great book for teachers to assign in 5th or 6th grade!

One of my favorite quotes from the story:

WHEN GIVEN THE CHOICE BETWEEN BEING
RIGHT OR BEING KIND, CHOOSE KIND.”

Friday, May 10, 2013

Felt Soap Tutorial

I first learned about felt soap from kids I babysit who made it in an art class. I found they were adorable and would make incredibly unique gifts, so I knew I had to try to make them. I checked out a bunch of different tutorials on Google and Youtube and they had a variety of suggestions. I still don’t know if I’m doing it right, but I’ll tell you what steps worked for me!

Materials:
Bar(s) of soap—I try to avoid odd shapes and sharp corners because I found they are harder to get an even felting. The bars of soap that are curved up like some Dove bars were harder to scrub the wool. The square bars with sharp corners sometimes turn out “bald” on the corners since the wool kind of moves around during the process and, again, the corners are a difficult shape/size to scrub.
Wool roving—I could not find this at Michaels when I visited home but apparently they sell it at Joann’s fabric in San Jose. I have seen a bunch online—Etsy had a great variety, but watch out for the weight per unit! I also read you can buy it at yarn stores. I heard the better the quality, the easier it is to felt, and that Merino wool works the best. I don’t know how to tell the quality of wool roving though…
Hot water/sink
Towel
Optional: sushi rolling mat, nylon stocking, felting needle & supplies (if you know how to needle felt!)

1.     First pull off some pieces of wool roving and kind of stretch them out. I like to take a few colors and stretch them out together then place pieces on top of each other, stretch out again, place pieces on top, stretch out again, etc. until the colors are kind of blended together. This takes longer than using just one color but I think it looks cuter. The wool should be stretched out evenly into several strips.



If you know how to needle felt, you can needle felt a design onto a chunk of wool that is the length of the entire perimeter of the bar of soap. This can be your top piece, but you will still need additional strips of wool.
I tried to “card” the wool with carding brushes to blend the colors but it just made the wool into big clumps that weren’t even…I could not find any good tutorials on how to do this but would love to know! If you are lucky enough to find pre-swirled wool roving that would probably be easiest to work with!
2.     Wrap the strips of wool around the felt. I think having pieces long enough to wrap around the entire bar are best. If the pieces are too short they sometimes clump and turn into knots when felting because they don’t get incorporated with the rest of the wool as easily. You need to wrap the strips in different directions so that the wool is kind of “woven” around the soap. I found that using too much wool makes it harder to felt, but not enough will leave you with bald spots.

Some tutorials say to put the wool soap in a stocking at this point. By enclosing it in a tightly-wrapped stocking, you can prevent the wool from sliding around and ruining your design. I thought this does make a difference, but it is hard to see what your soap looks like and when I took it out of the stocking too soon to check my progress, the whole chunk of wool slid around like crazy and made it really hard to reshape. So try it with and without and see which was works best for you—remember the stocking needs to be tight around the soap!

3.     Now the soap is ready to felt. I filled up a sink with hot water about 1/3 of the way. The tutorials say use warm water that is not hot enough to burn you but I do think that “hot” works better than “warm.” The hot water causes the wool to tighten and shrink (think about putting a wool sweater in the washing machine instead of dry cleaning it!) which is how the wool “felts.” Start by taking handfuls of hot water and dribbling it over the bar of soap in various areas, gently rubbing the wool in between splashes. The rubbing and hot water should cause the soap to sud, which will help bind the fibers of the wool together.


If you pour large doses of water onto the soap too early, the wool will definitely shift and be hard to felt. Drizzle a little bit of water at a time!

4.     Once the wool is nice and soapy, you can increase the doses of water and add more pressure. At this point, I like to also squeeze the soap like I am forming an onigiri (rice ball) to shape it. Sometimes the wool will slide around, but you can adjust it with your hands and squeeze it into place. You basically continue shaping and squeezing the wool until it “shrinks” and looks the way you want it to. Sometimes it takes a good ten to fifteen minutes for one bar…

5.     After your wool is felted, dry it off with a towel and then place it on the towel to dry. It should feel soft and wooly once dry. When using them, it helps to use hot water to allow the wool to shrink with the soap.





Here are some other websites I liked:




Finished projects:




Thursday, July 26, 2012

First Birthday

I celebrated my friend’s baby’s first birthday with her family in Kyushu this month. First of all, I was excited to see her baby and play with kids again! What a cute age that is! Her son was crawling everywhere and pulling himself up and leaning against the coffee table, fascinated by household objects, and an awesome car seat dancer/bouncer. I learned about new Japanese customs while I was there. I don’t know how many families still do these customs, but they were very interesting!

So what I gathered from the celebration was that the family members get together and have a nice meal together. We went to a traditional Japanese restaurant that had a tatami room which overlooked the ocean. The food was lots of raw things. They started us off with squid sashimi which was served next to two live squid! It was really freaky because I did not realize they were still living until one of our chopsticks touched the tentacles and we saw it move! It kind of turned my stomach…there was some other traditional Japanese food which included lots of seafood. They later took that live squid back, grilled it, and then served it again at the end of the meal. I’m not sure what the point of showing it to us first was but I guess it was just for looks. Another dish they brought out was “tai”, or sea bream, sashimi that was served on the fish itself. This time I am pretty sure the fish was completely dead. Tai is used for all celebratory events in Japan so it is considered kind of a delicacy. They also took back the rest of the fish, cooked it up, and reserved it. The baby’s cousin was also there and it was fun to play with both babies as they went around the room exploring things.

After we got home from the restaurant, they brought out this big mochi (rice cake) and put a smaller one in a small backpack. They tried to put these straw sandals on him but he just wasn’t having it. Then they tried to make him stomp on the mochi while wearing the backpack. Of course a one-year old who can’t even walk is not going to be much of a stomper, but they said this is tradition to build strength and show that the child will be healthy. The whole process lasted for less than a minute—what do you expect with babies, right? The next ceremony they brought out a bunch of different random objects that were supposed to represent different skills or hobbies. Traditionally you would use a brush, an abacus, etc. They put the random objects in a line and set him on the other side of the room. The objective was for him to crawl to the other side and choose one object, which would represent what he would be interested in when he gets older. It wasn’t really taken seriously—not like being sorted at Hogwarts or anything. I guess it’s just for fun because it’s tradition. Of course is not going to understand what he’s supposed to do in that situation though but it was fun to watch.

Me and Kouki
Kouki's birthday lunch made with baby food by his mom

Kouki's birthday cakes: the one on the left was made with a baby cake mix and yogurt
Squid sashimi and live squid

The cooked sea bream

Squid sashimi and squid stuffed with sticky rice

The cooked squid
Obachan eating lunch
Kouki's cousin, Mei
"Tai" sea bream sashimi
Sea bream cooked into miso soup
Cute Mei-chan
Mochi
Trying to get Kouki to stomp on the mochi
He did not like those sandals!

Babies look cute even when they cry!
He ended up choosing a piggy bank shaped like a mail box...so he'll either be good at saving money or he'll work at a post office?

Saturday, April 28, 2012

The many shades of spring

So April is almost over! It is finally getting warm around here—actually it is HOT. I swear, Japan has only two seasons: summer and winter. It suddenly became summer, but then a couple days where it bounced back to winter…nothing in between really. :/ I am looking forward to warmer weather though. The cherry blossoms have come and gone (it is such a short and sweet season). Now my town is covered in bright green.

Here are some pictures from the cherry blossom season.

my neighborhood cherry blossoms











less than two weeks and they're all gone!





can you believe these are the same trees?


this is close to my house...these yellow flowers grow up to six feet tall by this river.

 
Last weekend my friends that had their wedding ceremony in Guam had their wedding party in Japan. This is common in Japan, but it still confuses me. The couple gets married just by applying for a marriage license, and then the ceremony and reception are just for show. It seems in Japan the dates can be further apart. I thought in America everything happened all on the same day, no?? It’s interesting to learn about other countries’ customs though. So this time they wore Japanese wedding kimonos (men wear “hakama” and women wear “uchikake”) AND western wedding attire. It is just not enough to only have one outfit in Japan. My friend who got married in Kyushu had four dress changes!

The party was very fun and it was great to see the bride and groom so happy. Like most Japanese receptions, it started off with a speech by someone close to the groom. Then the bride and groom gave a welcome speech (or maybe that came first…). Then the MC went around and interviewed people with a microphone about the bride and groom. Then the bride and groom went around to all the tables to greet the guests and there was some time to go up to their table to take pictures with them (there really isn’t a lot of time to talk with the bride and groom one-on-one, so most couples go to an after party called “nijikai” where they can relax—this of course would require another outfit change!). Then the bride and groom left to change outfits while the guests eat, drink, and chat. Then there is some entertainment: Bingo is a common party game here and there are several different prizes prepared by the bride and groom. The finale was a performance by the bride’s younger brother. It was a great experience to celebrate every part of my close friends’ wedding.





















 
Next week we have some days off for a national vacation called “Golden Week.” Looking forward to relaxing and meeting up with people in Kansai.